Threesomes

By nightloveblog on June 26, 2013

Is threesome your wildest fantasy or just a social taboo?

A threesome is a very brave decision to make. Frankly speaking it’s a sexual fantasy of most people, but not everyone can make it real.

But if you want to get this unusual experience, we would advise you to do that with strangers. Or with a friend and a stranger. These will be NSA relationships just for one night, the most important thing is relaxing and getting satisfied. You can have a drink to feel more confident, but it’s better not to overdo with alcohol. It’s important to make sure your sexual partners aren’t maniacs and of course use condoms!

If you’re in a relationship and one of you wants to have a threesome with another male or female, you should acknowledge that there’s nothing bad or shameful about that. There are no taboos in sex anyway until they get satisfaction and none of them or any other people are hurt. So why not try and get this whole new experience? If so you’d better remember a few simple rules:

1. Define the third partner’s sex

Talk to your man and discuss together who you would like to be the third. Usually men dream of a woman, while women correspondingly dream of a man, but exceptions are possible too. If the third partner is heterosexual, it’s either your man will have to make love to both women, or you will be loved by two men at the same time.

2. Discuss the detail in advance.

It’s not only about the time and place. For example, if you have your own special positions and petting, you can ask your partner not to use them for another woman. But if this third partner is a male, just keep your likes in mind.

3. Sex is not a motive for acquaintance.

Many women associate threesomes with adultery. Thus they feel ashamed when just thinking about it. If you have fears of this kind, try to limit your communication with the third partner to sex only. You don’t need any further communication. Therefore we’ve got the last rule.

4. No friends.

Sex spoils friendship, friendship spoils sex. It’s all said.