Here are some postulates of sex:
1. When it comes to sex, men unlike women get sexually excited automatically and very fast. This is the natural reaction to such things as the girlfriend’s clothes, her breasts, perfume and so on. It doesn’t mean that he loves all these things but not her. They are simply necessary to attract his attention.
2. Sexually women are very different from each other. It’s absolutely different with men. Thus men have to be ready to learn everything anew with a new woman.
3. Sexually relaxed partners let each other interfere with each other’s fantasies. Such lovers love to add their fantasies to sex thus understanding each other perfectly.
4. Planning of the coming sex is one of the main components of love. It’s like satisfaction after the sexual intercourse.
5. Theory is good. Then sex becomes more interesting, understandable and less frightening. But too much theory is never good because it may be oppressing.
6. Centuries-old taboos related to physical contacts entailed the narrow-mindedness of our culture, including touching between men and friends. As if only parents and children or only lovers can touch each other. Ask yourself how much you’re open when communicating with other people.
7. Some cultures don’t understand the way we see sex even though we’re as free and open nowadays as never before. It’s very genital for us meaning penis insertion into vagina. But in other cultures it’s about sensuality first.