When having sex men think about sex. Everyone knows that. Unlike women usually think about anything or anyone else but for their actual partner. She will never share her sex fantasies with the man. ..
You have been together for more than a year already. Those times when your beloved woman was gentle with you with or without any reason are gone. The moment you switched off the light she wasn’t your quiet girl any more, but a passionate woman. Being intimate she tries not to call you by name, not to talk to you and not to open her eyes.
It’s most likely that she fantasizes and sees herself with another man. It’s rather standard. According to statistics, there’re about 35 % of women who see themselves intimate with a famous actor or any public figure. 20 % of women think about a specific person who they’re attracted to. 45 % of women make love to some ideal imaginary man.
You shouldn’t panic. Try to pay more attention to your woman. You should become gentle, sexy, passionate, just as you were at the beginning of your relationships.
She refuses most positions. You feel she is tense. Right before that very intimate moment she asks you to switch off the light, but even in the pitch darkness she does her best to stay distant.
Only 5 % of men actually like their body. The rest are very critical to themselves. That’s why while having sex she may be thinking about their big tummy, fat butt or big legs.
In this case it’s all about you. Compliment your woman on her beauty, admire her body.
If the woman is afraid of getting pregnant, it may entail frigidity. You should choose the most suitable for both of you method of contraception. It’s your common concern and you’re both responsible for any consequences.
She may be interested in adult movies. Thus you must have noticed her wearing provocative underwear and bright make-up. Probably she thinks imagines herself a prostitute or a rape victim. A rare woman will admit porn turns her on. That’s why fantasies is all she has. There can hardly be any advice here. You can suggest her watching a porn movie together and repeat afterwards everything she likes.
Who knows, probably you’ll see some other sides of your beloved woman.