How to Meet Men

By nightloveblog on April 24, 2013

Are you lucky meeting anyone in a café, on the Internet or in the street? Very often when you meet a man this way they turn out to be easy riders. In order not to be trapped, follow the advice of psychologists. This way you will be able to avoid unpleasant situations and finally meet a decent life partner.

When getting acquainted with a young man, try not only to listen to him attentively but also participate in the conversation. Don’t be afraid to ask questions on different topics. Of course the dialogue shouldn’t sound like interrogation. Show your kind-heartedness and your interest in his answer. In unconstrained conversation the man will open up faster, and you will be able to understand his real intentions. Don’t be shy to ask personal questions, for example, if he has ever been married or what his marital status is now.

If you feel his behavior is insincere, you can say that your major is psychology or journalism, and you’re among those people who like to dig up the truth. An honest man with serious intentions will never be confused or embarrassed; anyway when you become closer, you can tell him that you had a bad dating experience and now you have to “test” men. But if your interlocutor changes the subject, it means he was insincere with you and didn’t have any serious intentions.

You have to ask what he does and where he works. An easy rider will say that he is an actor, a businessman or a banker. In this case any respectable company or bank has their sites on the Internet. Ask the URL address of the site, pretending you want to see the photos of the young man and read the information about the company. The representatives of public businesses like to publicize themselves on the Internet. If he refuses to give you this information, you’ll get another reason to doubt his serious intentions.

During the first date let him understand you can’t invite him to your place. You feel sorry about that but you won’t be able to invite him to a cup of tea because you live with a lot of relatives or rent a flat with a strict landlady. You should minimize your income numbers as much as possible. A regular man who is interested in you and not your money will not pay any attention to the amount of money you earn, at least during the first months of acquaintance. An easy rider will understand what he can profit from. And after he gets your money he will break up with you.

If at the end of the date your dater behaves in a strange way, tell him that you think he’s hiding too much from you. An honest person will understand that you don’t like his secretiveness and will try to rehabilitate himself. A liar will say sarcastically that you have been dumped too often and now you don’t trust men any more. If it happens so, try to laugh off and say that your private life is fine.

This is important: during the first date when talking with your date look into his eyes. Speak firmly and distinctively, be self-confident. Smile but don’t be a Valley girl. If your dater isn’t real and doesn’t have serious intentions, he will understand immediately that he won’t be able to trick you.