Most married women feel worried seeing how easily married men get extramarital relations. You need to take measures beforehand for it not to happen to your husband. Psychologists say that women should be blamed in such cases because they don’t pay enough attention to their husbands. Sexologists are sure that spouses are able to avoid adultery if the wife plays the role of a mistress.
Most women think that dating is different from family life. And it’s really difficult to be passionate with the person you have lived together for a long time. But a woman can change the situation if she looks at her husband like a mistress or a woman who finds that man attractive. Look at him and evaluate his attractiveness and try to win him again. Those women, who think that a man can get sexually excited only when seeing a naked woman, are wrong. As a matter of fact a man can get excited even seeing a sales person wearing a tight shirt.
Theoretically any woman can use a man’s helplessness which is not good for wives. But most men are actually very shy when it comes to intimacy with a stranger. They will be obsessed about the chances for success and about possible failures. So it turns out that his potential mistress will have to try hard to get a man’s attention. At the same time wives have a different problem: they need to learn to seduce their husbands anew.
A man can leave the family only if he is fascinated by his mistress not only physically but spiritually as well. If you see that your spouse is distant to you try to capture his attention and become his soul mate. Be interested in whatever he is interested. Don’t forget to ask him about his work. Anything can bring you closer. Only being close spiritually will help you restore your intimate relations. Remember how you started dating. Your task is seduction, so play and flirt with each other every evening. Don’t forget to promise something new and unusual!
It’s important to get rid of all your complexes. It’s not the sexy body that turns a man on, but sexuality and sex experience. To be sexually desired you have to forget about taboos and stereotypes. To start with, suggest your husband something new and unusual that you’ve never tried before – like sex in a car or erotic Thai massage. Visit a sex shop or a lingerie shop together. Explore your erogenous zones together. Don’t be afraid of learning something new! An ideal lover is the woman who wants and loves to make love to her man.