Sexy or bitchy?

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A sexy woman and bitchiness are synonyms. Most men tend to think so. But bitchiness which implies such traits of character as aggressiveness, causticity, sarcasm, mercilessness, doesn’t always characterize a bitch. These traits relate to any woman. The question is when and how often this aggression is shown. There’s one more stereotype that sexy women can’t be nice, gentle and modest. The notion of sexuality can be both generalized as sexual attraction and excitability as well as considered a person’s individual trait of character.

What’s sexuality?

Many thinkers, psychologists, sexologists have analyzed the notion of sexuality. Every one of them had his/ her own opinion on what sexuality and a sexy woman are.

Sexuality means womanhood, coquetry but no finicality. Coquetry is a female peculiarity which attracts the opposite sex. What are its characteristics? If the man enters a room, the woman’s behavior changed immediately: she starts to do up her hair, speak louder and laugh. Thus sexuality can be defined as temptation too.

Private life of a sexy woman.

A sexy woman has no private life; it means that the meaning of life for such women is in the constant striving to seduction and being admired by many men, not one. Men consider such behavior very bitchy, they see her as a woman who can’t understand or feel anything but can only play with them, and this play gives her much pleasure. The desire of being admired by men doesn’t characterize a bitch; it’s common for all women. A woman can’t live without the proof of her attractiveness and beauty; and attention and compliments from men are the best proof of that.

Sexuality is cold.

They say sexuality can be cold… Partially this statement is true. People see sexuality as excessive self-assurance. A sexy woman may be cold in her feelings of course until the latter ones are aroused. That can be done by a strong man only, the one who won’t yield to a strong woman that, in her turn, is only trying to be strong. Her behavior, the way she walks and looks – it all is connected with the feeling of uncertainty in herself, in her beauty. Men in their turn see such women as complete bitches.

Bitches get lucky.

 Most women are sure they bad girls get lucky in love. Thus they start behaving themselves as bitches too. Women can’t be the same all the time as well as men. Bitchy women can be brave in public, with men, but they can be vulnerable and seek help too.

Gender equality.

Gender equality between a sexy woman and a confident woman is relative. A strong woman who knows how attractive she is to the opposite sex will never humiliate the latter one. On the contrary, she will always forgive, agree and be inferior to a man, because being gentle and moderate she can gain more happiness in a relationship rather than by domination.

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